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The fear of being “outed” as a virgin becomes a self-perpetuating cycle.

We come up with increasingly baroque reasons why we have been uniquely disadvantaged – we’re too “beta”, for example, for the notoriously “hypergamous” women.

The PUAHate forums that Elliot Rodger frequented take this to an almost fascinating extreme, comparing brow ridges and jaw angles and eye space in some sort of unified theory of sexual phrenology.

They talk about feeling broken or unworthy, that they’ve missed some sort of open time frame where they could lose their virginity and now they’re (metaphorically) screwed.

It feels like to 50 – that they can’t bring themselves to talk about it.

What makes this especially twisted is the way we internalize the pressure to fuck, to be a virgin.

When we fail to follow the narrative we get angry, lashing out at others and haranguing ourselves in turns.

And one of the best places to start is to talk about sex.